What if I told you there were three steps to get better feedback? Three steps that would lessen the stress you feel when faced with a performance evaluation. Carole Stizza has developed a formula that will do just that.
When we go into a performance evaluation or ask for feedback from a client, we often start with a prescribed form. And as a result, we listen to the responses but neglect to ask questions. Carole shares this is often because we view an evaluation as a one-way conversation rather than an open dialog for questions and conversation. Her research lead her to realize when we did ask questions, the questions were too broad or didn’t include the context of what would make the responses relevant.
Carole’s new book – The Ask Framework – walks the reader through how to get positive, productive feedback from supervisors, coworkers and team members. During our conversation, Carole and I talk about the three key steps to remember when starting a conversation where feedback is given. Additionally, we talk about how to put this framework in all the important relationships in your life – professional or personal.
About Carole Stizza
Carole Stizza writes with the goal of empowering her readers to embrace their own unique individuality and to communicate how much they value others. Success at work depends on it.
She is a contributing author to Compassion @ Work and Coach Wisdom, volume 1, and she pulls from a rich career in human resources, executive coaching, and supporting a military family across the US for twenty-six years. She holds a master’s in applied industrial organizational psychology from Colorado State University.
Resources mentioned in this episode:
- Relevant Insight, Carole’s website
- Carole’s LinkedIn Profile
- The Pursuit of Purpose archive